Robert McGregor
11-19-2005, 02:05 PM
"Default" <SetAsDefault@properties.comnospam> wrote in message
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> Funny how on Dreamspinner's online blog, she doesn't mention her
> husband's struggle with alcoholism, instead, she brought it here,
> to a public newsgroup.
Dreamspinner's not the first to bring her problems here, generally be
welcomed too. However, if you want to be a real arsehole, hang around
and put shit on all the friends/family of alcoholics that post their
problems here, you can. (some of them probly think that I think
that's my role here anyway) This is an open group, without even the
FAQ that commonly apply, at least theoretically, in Usenet.
> I will never understand why people bring their entire personal
> lives to online blogs and newsgroups.
Ok, if that's all you don't understand your one very unlucky person.
If I had only one incomprehension left I would hang on to it for all
it was worth. Understanding often brings with it some very
uncomfortable decisions, uncomfortable responsibilities, and
downright difficult but essential actions too!
>The poor drunk husband probably has no idea she has been blabbing
>about him all over the net. Or, maybe that's why he drinks, ya
>think?
I think it don't matter to me at all why he drinks. This group is
generally not about drinking. According to the header, it's supposed
to be about recovery from alcoholism, which essentially involves
*not* drinking.
> See: http://members.tripod.com/dreamspinner3/
I've already seen it and feel no need, at all, to see it again.
Is that all?
Bob
>
> "Robert McGregor" <robert_mcgregor@knickers.yahoo.com.au> wrote in
> message news:437f58a4_1@news.iprimus.com.au...
>> "dan mcgown" <dmcgown@adelphia.net> wrote in message
>> news:PYydnWzHXvFkruLeRVn-tQ@adelphia.com...
>>>I just think that trolls are so *cute* -- the way that you stand
>>>out
>>>in the garden under the bird bath in your little pointy red
>>>hats --
>>>oh, sorry! That's gnomes, isn't it. The equivalent lack of
>>>stature
>>>always tricks me.
>>>
>>> Oh yeah, bugger off, troll or garden gnome or whatever you are.
>>
>>
>> Danny? No kind offers of private "help"? This is not a prospective
>> boyfriend, at all?
>>
>> After reading closely, I wouldn't be at all surprised if this is
>> either an acquaintance of dreamspinner, or her husband.
>>
>> If so, G'Day, default, that name would have suited me
>> perfectly when I was drinking.
>>
>> Bob
>>
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>>>> "dreamspinner3" <dreamspinner3@gmx.net> wrote in message
>>>> news:1131390920.837473.142100@g49g2000cwa.googlegr oups.com...
>>>>> My husband checked himself back into the hosptial yesterday.
>>>>> He
>>>>> called
>>>>> me to let me know where he was & we talked for a couple of
>>>>> minutes. He
>>>>> said he was sorry for hurting me & that he'd never hurt me
>>>>> again
>>>>> (this
>>>>> is a promise no human being could keep), that he's ready to get
>>>>> treatment, & that he loves me. He said he doesn't remember
>>>>> anything
>>>>> that happened on November 2nd except that he took a whole bunch
>>>>> of
>>>>> pills to try & kill himself.
>>>>>
>>>>> I have mixed emotions about this. I'm happy he checked himself
>>>>> in but
>>>>> does he really want help? Or is he just doing it to try & lull
>>>>> me into
>>>>> thinking he's serious this time? I still care about him--do I
>>>>> want to
>>>>> wait to see what happens for a week or so do should I just push
>>>>> on &
>>>>> get a divorce lawyer right away?
>>>>>
>>>>> I'm so confused. Of course, I don't know what he wants. Maybe
>>>>> he
>>>>> doesn't want to stay married anymore.
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Is your husband aware that not only are you complaining about me
>>>> to your therapist and an Alanon group, you are always yapping
>>>> about him on a public newsgroup??? Geez Lady, enough is enough.
>>>> Let the drunk YOU married have some privacy. Bad enough you
>>>> have
>>>> been carrying on with his friend behind his back. Sounds like
>>>> you
>>>> are driving the old man to drink, bitching and griping about him
>>>> anywhere and everywhere you can. Why in God's name are you
>>>> asking
>>>> people on a fucking public newsgroup if YOU should file for
>>>> divorce?? Are you nuttier than the drunken old man is?
>>>>
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> Funny how on Dreamspinner's online blog, she doesn't mention her
> husband's struggle with alcoholism, instead, she brought it here,
> to a public newsgroup.
Dreamspinner's not the first to bring her problems here, generally be
welcomed too. However, if you want to be a real arsehole, hang around
and put shit on all the friends/family of alcoholics that post their
problems here, you can. (some of them probly think that I think
that's my role here anyway) This is an open group, without even the
FAQ that commonly apply, at least theoretically, in Usenet.
> I will never understand why people bring their entire personal
> lives to online blogs and newsgroups.
Ok, if that's all you don't understand your one very unlucky person.
If I had only one incomprehension left I would hang on to it for all
it was worth. Understanding often brings with it some very
uncomfortable decisions, uncomfortable responsibilities, and
downright difficult but essential actions too!
>The poor drunk husband probably has no idea she has been blabbing
>about him all over the net. Or, maybe that's why he drinks, ya
>think?
I think it don't matter to me at all why he drinks. This group is
generally not about drinking. According to the header, it's supposed
to be about recovery from alcoholism, which essentially involves
*not* drinking.
> See: http://members.tripod.com/dreamspinner3/
I've already seen it and feel no need, at all, to see it again.
Is that all?
Bob
>
> "Robert McGregor" <robert_mcgregor@knickers.yahoo.com.au> wrote in
> message news:437f58a4_1@news.iprimus.com.au...
>> "dan mcgown" <dmcgown@adelphia.net> wrote in message
>> news:PYydnWzHXvFkruLeRVn-tQ@adelphia.com...
>>>I just think that trolls are so *cute* -- the way that you stand
>>>out
>>>in the garden under the bird bath in your little pointy red
>>>hats --
>>>oh, sorry! That's gnomes, isn't it. The equivalent lack of
>>>stature
>>>always tricks me.
>>>
>>> Oh yeah, bugger off, troll or garden gnome or whatever you are.
>>
>>
>> Danny? No kind offers of private "help"? This is not a prospective
>> boyfriend, at all?
>>
>> After reading closely, I wouldn't be at all surprised if this is
>> either an acquaintance of dreamspinner, or her husband.
>>
>> If so, G'Day, default, that name would have suited me
>> perfectly when I was drinking.
>>
>> Bob
>>
>>
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>>> "Default" <SetAsDefault@properties.comnospam> wrote in message
>>> news:1132407203_8597@spool6-east.superfeed.net...
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>>>> "dreamspinner3" <dreamspinner3@gmx.net> wrote in message
>>>> news:1131390920.837473.142100@g49g2000cwa.googlegr oups.com...
>>>>> My husband checked himself back into the hosptial yesterday.
>>>>> He
>>>>> called
>>>>> me to let me know where he was & we talked for a couple of
>>>>> minutes. He
>>>>> said he was sorry for hurting me & that he'd never hurt me
>>>>> again
>>>>> (this
>>>>> is a promise no human being could keep), that he's ready to get
>>>>> treatment, & that he loves me. He said he doesn't remember
>>>>> anything
>>>>> that happened on November 2nd except that he took a whole bunch
>>>>> of
>>>>> pills to try & kill himself.
>>>>>
>>>>> I have mixed emotions about this. I'm happy he checked himself
>>>>> in but
>>>>> does he really want help? Or is he just doing it to try & lull
>>>>> me into
>>>>> thinking he's serious this time? I still care about him--do I
>>>>> want to
>>>>> wait to see what happens for a week or so do should I just push
>>>>> on &
>>>>> get a divorce lawyer right away?
>>>>>
>>>>> I'm so confused. Of course, I don't know what he wants. Maybe
>>>>> he
>>>>> doesn't want to stay married anymore.
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>> Is your husband aware that not only are you complaining about me
>>>> to your therapist and an Alanon group, you are always yapping
>>>> about him on a public newsgroup??? Geez Lady, enough is enough.
>>>> Let the drunk YOU married have some privacy. Bad enough you
>>>> have
>>>> been carrying on with his friend behind his back. Sounds like
>>>> you
>>>> are driving the old man to drink, bitching and griping about him
>>>> anywhere and everywhere you can. Why in God's name are you
>>>> asking
>>>> people on a fucking public newsgroup if YOU should file for
>>>> divorce?? Are you nuttier than the drunken old man is?
>>>>
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