"Plug" <gluggaglug@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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> "Anna Thema" <anna_thema@simcity.com> wrote in message
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> > My wife left me 3 yrs ago. I started drinking again shortly thereafter.
> > I haved screwed my chances badly.
>
> Hi there,
> I agree with everything Blue has said. Separation/Divorce and the
children
> issues are difficult enough without throwing alcoholism into the pot.
Your
> wife will always be able to hold that over you. In my limited experience
> "amicable" separations happen to couples without children - every time
there
> is contact with the child, the wound is opened up again. And the whole
> issue of exes is another hurdle to climb over.
> Anyway, get sober first and you will have rid yourself of a curse worse
than
> any woman! Good luck.
> Deb

Funny how it was for me. When I concentrated on sobriety, all the other
problems seem to magically smooth out almost on their own.

>
> Funny how it was for me. When I concentrated on sobriety, all the other
> problems seem to magically smooth out almost on their own.
>
>

YUP!
that's just how it works!

--
read and post daily, it works!
rosie

Do not meditate - be!
Do not think that you are - be!
Don't think about being - you are!
..................................Sri Ramana Maharshi






"stuart" <fred@outerspace.jetsons> wrote in message news:zzKJa.28091$T85.3462860@news1.telusplanet.net ...
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> "Plug" <gluggaglug@hotmail.com> wrote in message
> news:bd6d4g$57c$5@sparta.btinternet.com...
> >
> > "Anna Thema" <anna_thema@simcity.com> wrote in message
> > news:vfcslgbsts7j10@corp.supernews.com...
> > > My wife left me 3 yrs ago. I started drinking again shortly thereafter.
> > > I haved screwed my chances badly.
> >
> > Hi there,
> > I agree with everything Blue has said. Separation/Divorce and the
> children
> > issues are difficult enough without throwing alcoholism into the pot.
> Your
> > wife will always be able to hold that over you. In my limited experience
> > "amicable" separations happen to couples without children - every time
> there
> > is contact with the child, the wound is opened up again. And the whole
> > issue of exes is another hurdle to climb over.
> > Anyway, get sober first and you will have rid yourself of a curse worse
> than
> > any woman! Good luck.
> > Deb
>
> Funny how it was for me. When I concentrated on sobriety, all the other
> problems seem to magically smooth out almost on their own.
>
>