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Re: Sobriety without a 12 step program
stuart wrote:
> <NutSoFast@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:PXjre.837$fV.501@okepread06... > >>On 13-Jun-2005, Ken Ragge <ken@nospam.com> wrote: >> >> >>>You might put up a better defense if you had a clue what you were >>>talking about. >> >>When have I identified myself as a member of AA? > > > Fact is, you haven't. > This Ken Ragge would appear to be someone with an agenda. This type of > newsgroup offers some free advertising. I suspect he's selling tapes, or a > book or something. > Unfortunately for him, the biggest reason of all that XA wins recovering > addicts to about a trillion to one is that XA is not for profit, and is > free, apart from passing the basket at meetings for voluntary donations > Here is a challenge for you Stuart. Tell me where I'm selling something, anything. Just one more ignorant attack. AA not for profit? Did you never hear of the multi-billion dollar treatment industry? Do you even know who controls the "Big Book"? Ken Ragge http://www.morerevealed.com |
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Re: Sobriety without a 12 step program
stuart wrote:
> Ken Ragge <ken@nospam.com> wrote in message > news:V_6dnasv2NlITTDfRVn-tQ@comcast.com... > >>stuart wrote: >> >> >>>Ken Ragge <ken@nospam.com> wrote in message >>>news:jpudnfV0av7_JTDfRVn-gg@comcast.com... >>> >>> >>>>NutSoFast@hotmail.com wrote: >>>> >>>> >>>>>On 13-Jun-2005, Ken Ragge <ken@nospam.com> wrote: >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>>Actually, that is exactly what recovery is about. It is setting >>>>>>yourself up as wise guru surrounded by fawning followers. >>>>>> >>>>>>In AA, in many ways, the self doesn't exist, "God relieve me of the >>>>>>bondage of self." When one is a borg, an attack on the collective is >>>>>>seen as an attack by all the assimilated entities. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Anyone who quotes Star Trek scenarios is worth emulating... >>>>>So lead on Ken. I think I'm gonna follow you around >>>>>for awhile! <b (vapid) n> >>>>> >>>>NutSoFast, >>>> >>>>I'm really delighted to see a grouper respond so cogently when >>>>confronted with criticism of the group. >>>> >>>>Not only do you focus your attention on an analogy, I'll bet you can >>>>find spelling and gramatical errors. >>> >>> >>> >>>That's the strange part, Ken. Of all of the intial responders to the >>>original post who agreed wholeheartedly with you, not one of them had > > ANY > >>>spelling or grammatical errors. In fact, the literary style was highly >>>similar, ie very professional, like the author of a book or something. >>>Ever watch those infomercials on TV, where the "customer" steps in to >>>endorse the product. Kinda looked like that Ken. You might be able to > > pull > >>>that stunt in front of many XA members, but not all of us came from skid > > row > >>>or prison with a sixth grade education. >> >>I appreciate your attempt at flattery, but according to the >>professionals including the last editor of "More Revealed," I have lousy >>grammer. Even so . . . > > > I wasn't complimenting your grammar, Ken. I was describing it. It was pretty > much error free, but more importatntly, "both" posters used identical > sentence structure and spelling. > > There are often repeated errors in spelling, Ken, not to mention different > versions of English ie American, British and Canadian. > Hate to say so, but you got caught on this one. > > I wouldn't push back, to spare yourself any further embarrasment. > No, by all means. Push back. I mean really, put up or shut up, isn't that the expression? Ken Ragge http://www.morerevealed.com > >>Have you never heard, "No one is too stupid to get the program but many >>are too smart?" Have you considered the possibility that some of the >>ones who were too smart to "get it" were the ones responding? ![]() >> >>In any case, I'm glad it is not my job to keep Steppers honest, to keep >>them from endlessly repeating inane accustions. >> >>Ken Ragge >>http://www.morerevealed.com > > > |
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On 13-Jun-2005, "stuart" <fred@nospam.com> wrote: > Fact is, you haven't. > This Ken Ragge would appear to be someone with an agenda. This type of > newsgroup offers some free advertising. I suspect he's selling tapes, or a > book or something. In all honesty Stuart (I made sure to double-checked your name)... I've never had reason to form any opinion about him until today. It would seem that anyone who puts that much energy into debunking 'the program' would have an agenda. But perhaps he is what he claims to be... some sort of anti-crusader. Who knows? -- NutSo (aka CW aka C Dub) |
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Re: Sobriety without a 12 step program
"jim" <dingdong46@shaw.ca> wrote in message
news:Ofkre.1667319$8l.905428@pd7tw1no > Robert, what do you think of a sober alcoholic who attends > meetings but still enjoys a puff of good BC bud? You should try > it, you might mellow out a bit. Contrary to what others may say it > does not lead back to drinking. I have proved it. About all you have "proved" here is your absurdity, to which I very much doubt a toke or two could make any significant difference, at all. Bob |
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Ken Ragge <ken@nospam.com> wrote in message news:I-mdnWCADN3QSTDfRVn-hg@comcast.com... > stuart wrote: > > <NutSoFast@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:PXjre.837$fV.501@okepread06... > > > >>On 13-Jun-2005, Ken Ragge <ken@nospam.com> wrote: > >> > >> > >>>You might put up a better defense if you had a clue what you were > >>>talking about. > >> > >>When have I identified myself as a member of AA? > > > > > > Fact is, you haven't. > > This Ken Ragge would appear to be someone with an agenda. This type of > > newsgroup offers some free advertising. I suspect he's selling tapes, or a > > book or something. > > Unfortunately for him, the biggest reason of all that XA wins recovering > > addicts to about a trillion to one is that XA is not for profit, and is > > free, apart from passing the basket at meetings for voluntary donations > > > > Here is a challenge for you Stuart. Tell me where I'm selling > something, anything. Just one more ignorant attack. # OF COPIES TITLE PRICE AMOUNT BOOKS ____ Alcohol: How to Give It Up and Be Glad You Did 10.00 _______ ____ Anarchy in Action 9.95 _______ ____ Anarchy in Action (with bumped corner) 7.00 _______ ____ The Anti-Christ 5.95 _______ (plus The Philosophy of Friedrich Nietzsche) 12.00 _______ ____ Bi Lives: Bisexual Women Tell Their Stories 10.00 _______ ____ Cuban Anarchism: The History of a Movement 5.00 _______ ____ The Devil's Dictionaries, Second Edition 7.95 _______ (plus The Heretic's Handbook of Quotations) 20.00 _______ ____ The Drummer's Bible 22.00 _______ ____ The Drummer's Bible (defectively bound) 5.00 _______ ____ Food Not Bombs (revised edition) 7.00 _____ __ ____ Freedom from God 15.00 _______ ____ Getting a Bigger Sound 12.00 _______ (plus Musical Instrument Design) 25.00 _______ ____ The Heretic's Handbook of Quotations (exp. ed.) 14.95 _______ (plus The Devil's Dictionaries) 20.00 _______ ____ The Irrational in Politics 2.00 _______ ____ The Jungle: The Uncensored Original Edition 10.00 _______ ____ Musical Instrument Design 14.95 _______ ____ (plus Getting a Bigger Sound) 25.00 _______ ____ Overcoming Your Alcohol, Drug, and Recovery Habits 10.00 _______ ____ The Philosophy of Friedrich Nietzsche 7.95 _______ (plus The Anti-Christ) 12.00 _______ _____ The Real AA: Behind the Myth (shopworn) 6.95 _______ ____ Resisting 12-Step Coercion 10.00 _______ ____ An Understandable Guide to Music Theory 7.95 _______ ____ What Is Anarchism? 13.95 _______ PAMPHLETS ____ America's Taliban 2.50 _______ ____ Among the Cannibal Christians 3.00 _______ ____ Anarchism & American Traditions 1.50 _______ ____ Anarchism vs. Primitivism 3.50 _______ ____ Anarchism: What It Is & What It Isn't 1.00 _______ ____ Anarchist Society & Its Practical Realization 1.50 _______ ____ The Art & Science of Billboard Imprvmt. (2nd ed.) 3.00 _______ ____ Astrology: Fraud or Superstition? 1.00 _______ ____ Bourgeois Influences on Anarchism 3.00 _______ ____ The Case Against Religiosity 1.00 _______ ____ The Catholic Church and the Sex Problem 2.50 _______ ____ Christianity & Slavery 3.50 _______ ____ The Crimes of Jehovah 2.50 _______ ____ Design Your Own Utopia 2.00 _______ ____ Dialogue Between a Priest and a Dying Atheist 2.00 _______ ____ Does God Exist? 2.50 _______ ____ A Future Worth Living 2.00 _______ ____ God Eating: A Study of Christianity & Cannibalism 3.00 _______ ____ The Heretic's Guide to the Bible 1.50 _______ ____ A History of Satanism 3.00 _______ ____ Horrors of the Inquisition 3.50 _______ ____ How Christianity Grew Out of Paganism 1.00 _______ ____ The Inefficiency of Capitalism 3.00 _______ ____ Judeo-Christian Degradation of Woman 3.50 _______ ____ Libertarian Communism 2.50 _______ ____ Listen Anarchist 2.00 _______ ____ May the Farce Be With You 2.00 _______ ____ The Meaning of Atheism 1.50 _______ ____ Pagan Christs 3.50 _______ ____ The Relevance of Anarchism to Modern Society 2.00 _______ ____ The Revolutionary Pleasure of Thinking for Yourself 1.50 _______ ____ Science, Society & Religion 1.50 _______ ____ The State 3.00 _______ ____ Thumbscrew & Rack 2.00 _______ ____ 20 Reasons to Abandon Christianity 2.00 _______ ____ 24 Theses for a New Women's Movement 1.50 _______ What God Has Revealed to Man (1 copy) .35 _______ (4 copies) 1.00 _______ (30 copies) 5.00 _______ (75 copies) 10.00 _______ ____ What Is Democracy? 2.50 _______ ____ Why I Am Not a Mormon 2.50 _______ ____ You Call This Freedom? 2.00 _______ ____ You Can't Blow Up a Social Relationship 1.50 _______ BUMPER STICKERS ____ Bumper Sticker Grab Bag 5.00 _______ To order individual stickers, print the page listing them, circle the ones you want, add up the total, and enter it here: _______ (Of course, include the page with the circled stickers along with this form.) SUBTOTAL _______ SHIPPING _______ In the U.S., $3.00 for book rate; $4.50 for priority mail. Overseas (including Canada & Mexico) $4.50 for surface mail, $5 + 20% of total for air mail. (Please note that these S/H fees are per order, not per item.) (Please also note that all shipments to individuals are via the U.S. Postal Service. Due to damaged shipments and their refusal to honor the "insurance" they sell, we will not ship via UPS.) TOTAL $_______ Print Name _______________________ Address __________________________________ City __________________________ State _____ Zip __________ (Country) ________ Please send this form and a check or money order in U.S. dollars to: See Sharp Press P.O. Box 1731 Tucson, AZ 85702-1731 USA Finally, you can order in-print See Sharp Press books by phone (but not pamphlets, bumper stickers, or our out-of-print, reduced-price books) with a credit card at 1-800-888-4741, 9am to 5 pm CST. [ top ] > > AA not for profit? Did you never hear of the multi-billion dollar > treatment industry? > > Do you even know who controls the "Big Book"? > > Ken Ragge > http://www.morerevealed.com |
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Re: Sobriety without a 12 step program
"M$Man" <my_email@none_of_your_goddamn_business.org> wrote in message
news:9jcre.412$Pa5.8@newssvr21.news.prodigy.com... > > "Sheenah" wrote: > > I was able to not drink for almost 8 years without > > making use of arecovery programme. > > So what was your silver bullet? Where did you get your support structure > from? Just family and friends? Was it just a will power thing? How did you > cope when something hit a trigger? Willpower. All the time I was not drinking, my husband continued drinking at home. Also, when visitors came or we went out, if it was an occasion when we normally would be drinking everyone except me did so. When something hit the trigger it was very much more difficult for me to not drink. I could get irritable, short-tempered and tearful, be unable to settle or to concentrate on anything except the thought that I must not drink and feel frustrated and under stress. When I started to drink again I had the idea that having been not drinking for almost eight years I had proved myself well able to control my drinking "when I wanted to" and this led to me thinking that if I started to drink again I 'd find it easy to control how much I drank. The day I decided to drink again, I planned to have only one glass of wine. Instead, I started with a large coffee mug of wine half of which I drank in secret before taking my husband his glass of wine. Shortly after giving him his drink, I went back to where I had left the remains of my drink, finished it and immediately refilled my mug. That evening I drank the best part of a full bottle of wine. Ten months of daily drinking later, I became again ready to decide to quit drinking and did so. Today, I have just over 2 years of not drinking under my belt. In these 2 years I have found opinions about what alcoholism is and suggestions about how it can be managed that have come to make sense to me. I got exposed to these opinions and suggestions as a result of mixing with alcoholics, most of whom had at least a year of not drinking under their belt. From them I came to first have thoughts about what seemed to work for them and then came to think it could do me no harm to try doing what those who had the kind of sobriety I hoped to one day have, had been doing done. So I did. Now, from personal experience, I know that what seemed to work for those who once gave me cause to think I ought to do what they've been doing, has to date also worked for me. Which is good :^) Sheenah |
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<NutSoFast@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:ZUkre.842$fV.403@okepread06... > > On 13-Jun-2005, "stuart" <fred@nospam.com> wrote: > > > Fact is, you haven't. > > This Ken Ragge would appear to be someone with an agenda. This type of > > newsgroup offers some free advertising. I suspect he's selling tapes, or a > > book or something. > > In all honesty Stuart (I made sure to double-checked your name)... > I've never had reason to form any opinion about him until today. > > It would seem that anyone who puts that much energy into > debunking 'the program' would have an agenda. But perhaps > he is what he claims to be... some sort of anti-crusader. Who > knows? Ken and his cohorts aren't the sharpest knives in the drawer. Firstly, to come to a discussion forum with books for sale is amateurish at best. Secondly, and most sadly, is that Ken may have some good ideas, and many legitimate points Basic principles of salesmanship 101 in the 21st century, the information age, the "new age" the age of enlightenment are paramount. Are you listening Ken? The basic premise is that reasonably intelligent and able people can entertain conflicting ideas simlutaneously. Ken does not understand this. Secondly, never never never run down the alternatives, ie "the competition" if you will. Most readers will immediately begin to think you are afraid or resentful of them. Bad bad bad. Problem here is that their whole package is predicated on running down AA. By doing that, in a forum such as this, he allows his denigration of AA to extend to AA members, and therefore attacking a huge chunk of his potential market, or at least potential followers of his ideas. Those who are here who are not XA members see him attacking those who are. Very bad from a marketing perspective. What would work much better for him IMO, it to use the "yes, but" technique... example," I got sober in AA and I believe in the steps..." "yes, but that took you to a certain point in recovery, and although you may want to stay with AA, have you considered...etc etc > NutSo (aka CW aka C Dub) |
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Re: Sobriety without a 12 step program
Sheenah <JBcatRB@coldman.com> wrote in message news:d8ks1k$hvf$1@newsg1.svr.pol.co.uk... > "M$Man" <my_email@none_of_your_goddamn_business.org> wrote in message > news:9jcre.412$Pa5.8@newssvr21.news.prodigy.com... > > > > "Sheenah" wrote: > > > I was able to not drink for almost 8 years without > > > making use of arecovery programme. > > > > So what was your silver bullet? Where did you get your support > structure > > from? Just family and friends? Was it just a will power thing? How did > you > > cope when something hit a trigger? > > Willpower. All the time I was not drinking, my husband continued > drinking at home. Also, when visitors came or we went out, if it was an > occasion when we normally would be drinking everyone except me did so. > When something hit the trigger it was very much more difficult for me to > not drink. I could get irritable, short-tempered and tearful, be unable > to settle or to concentrate on anything except the thought that I must > not drink and feel frustrated and under stress. > > When I started to drink again I had the idea that having been not > drinking for almost eight years I had proved myself well able to control > my drinking "when I wanted to" and this led to me thinking that if I > started to drink again I 'd find it easy to control how much I drank. > The day I decided to drink again, I planned to have only one glass of > wine. Instead, I started with a large coffee mug of wine half of which > I drank in secret before taking my husband his glass of wine. Shortly > after giving him his drink, I went back to where I had left the remains > of my drink, finished it and immediately refilled my mug. That evening > I drank the best part of a full bottle of wine. Ten months of daily > drinking later, I became again ready to decide to quit drinking and did > so. > > Today, I have just over 2 years of not drinking under my belt. In these > 2 years I have found opinions about what alcoholism is and suggestions > about how it can be managed that have come to make sense to me. > > I got exposed to these opinions and suggestions as a result of mixing > with alcoholics, most of whom had at least a year of not drinking under > their belt. From them I came to first have thoughts about what seemed > to work for them and then came to think it could do me no harm to try > doing what those who had the kind of sobriety I hoped to one day have, > had been doing done. So I did. Now, from personal experience, I know > that what seemed to work for those who once gave me cause to think I > ought to do what they've been doing, has to date also worked for me. > Which is good :^) > > Sheenah Thanks for the ideas Sheenah. It's all good. > > |
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Re: Sobriety without a 12 step program
stuart <fred@nospam.com> wrote in message news:3fmre.62688$tt5.30687@edtnps90... > > Ken Ragge <ken@nospam.com> wrote in message > news:I-mdnWCADN3QSTDfRVn-hg@comcast.com... > > stuart wrote: > > > <NutSoFast@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:PXjre.837$fV.501@okepread06... > > > > > >>On 13-Jun-2005, Ken Ragge <ken@nospam.com> wrote: > > >> > > >> > > >>>You might put up a better defense if you had a clue what you were > > >>>talking about. > > >> > > >>When have I identified myself as a member of AA? > > > > > > > > > Fact is, you haven't. > > > This Ken Ragge would appear to be someone with an agenda. This type of > > > newsgroup offers some free advertising. I suspect he's selling tapes, or > a > > > book or something. > > > Unfortunately for him, the biggest reason of all that XA wins recovering > > > addicts to about a trillion to one is that XA is not for profit, and is > > > free, apart from passing the basket at meetings for voluntary donations > > > > > > > Here is a challenge for you Stuart. Tell me where I'm selling > > something, anything. Just one more ignorant attack. > # OF COPIES TITLE PRICE > AMOUNT > > BOOKS > > ____ Alcohol: How to Give It Up and Be Glad You Did 10.00 > _______ > ____ Anarchy in Action 9.95 > _______ > ____ Anarchy in Action (with bumped corner) 7.00 > _______ > ____ The Anti-Christ 5.95 > _______ > (plus The Philosophy of Friedrich Nietzsche) 12.00 > _______ > ____ Bi Lives: Bisexual Women Tell Their Stories 10.00 > _______ > ____ Cuban Anarchism: The History of a Movement 5.00 > _______ > ____ The Devil's Dictionaries, Second Edition 7.95 > _______ > (plus The Heretic's Handbook of Quotations) 20.00 > _______ > ____ The Drummer's Bible 22.00 > _______ > ____ The Drummer's Bible (defectively bound) 5.00 > _______ > ____ Food Not Bombs (revised edition) 7.00 _____ > __ > ____ Freedom from God 15.00 > _______ > ____ Getting a Bigger Sound 12.00 > _______ > (plus Musical Instrument Design) 25.00 > _______ > ____ The Heretic's Handbook of Quotations (exp. ed.) 14.95 > _______ > (plus The Devil's Dictionaries) 20.00 > _______ > ____ The Irrational in Politics 2.00 > _______ > ____ The Jungle: The Uncensored Original Edition 10.00 > _______ > ____ Musical Instrument Design 14.95 > _______ > ____ (plus Getting a Bigger Sound) 25.00 > _______ > ____ Overcoming Your Alcohol, Drug, and Recovery Habits 10.00 > _______ > ____ The Philosophy of Friedrich Nietzsche 7.95 > _______ > (plus The Anti-Christ) 12.00 > _______ > _____ The Real AA: Behind the Myth (shopworn) 6.95 > _______ > ____ Resisting 12-Step Coercion 10.00 > _______ > ____ An Understandable Guide to Music Theory 7.95 > _______ > ____ What Is Anarchism? 13.95 > _______ > > PAMPHLETS > > ____ America's Taliban 2.50 > _______ > ____ Among the Cannibal Christians 3.00 > _______ > ____ Anarchism & American Traditions 1.50 > _______ > ____ Anarchism vs. Primitivism 3.50 > _______ > ____ Anarchism: What It Is & What It Isn't 1.00 > _______ > ____ Anarchist Society & Its Practical Realization 1.50 > _______ > ____ The Art & Science of Billboard Imprvmt. (2nd ed.) 3.00 > _______ > ____ Astrology: Fraud or Superstition? 1.00 > _______ > ____ Bourgeois Influences on Anarchism 3.00 > _______ > ____ The Case Against Religiosity 1.00 > _______ > ____ The Catholic Church and the Sex Problem 2.50 > _______ > ____ Christianity & Slavery 3.50 > _______ > ____ The Crimes of Jehovah 2.50 > _______ > ____ Design Your Own Utopia 2.00 > _______ > ____ Dialogue Between a Priest and a Dying Atheist 2.00 > _______ > ____ Does God Exist? 2.50 > _______ > ____ A Future Worth Living 2.00 > _______ > ____ God Eating: A Study of Christianity & Cannibalism 3.00 > _______ > ____ The Heretic's Guide to the Bible 1.50 > _______ > ____ A History of Satanism 3.00 > _______ > ____ Horrors of the Inquisition 3.50 > _______ > ____ How Christianity Grew Out of Paganism 1.00 > _______ > ____ The Inefficiency of Capitalism 3.00 > _______ > ____ Judeo-Christian Degradation of Woman 3.50 > _______ > ____ Libertarian Communism 2.50 > _______ > ____ Listen Anarchist 2.00 > _______ > ____ May the Farce Be With You 2.00 > _______ > ____ The Meaning of Atheism 1.50 > _______ > ____ Pagan Christs 3.50 > _______ > ____ The Relevance of Anarchism to Modern Society 2.00 > _______ > ____ The Revolutionary Pleasure of Thinking for Yourself 1.50 > _______ > ____ Science, Society & Religion 1.50 > _______ > ____ The State 3.00 > _______ > ____ Thumbscrew & Rack 2.00 > _______ > ____ 20 Reasons to Abandon Christianity 2.00 > _______ > ____ 24 Theses for a New Women's Movement 1.50 > _______ > What God Has Revealed to Man (1 copy) .35 > _______ > (4 copies) 1.00 > _______ > (30 copies) 5.00 > _______ > (75 copies) 10.00 > _______ > ____ What Is Democracy? 2.50 > _______ > ____ Why I Am Not a Mormon 2.50 > _______ > ____ You Call This Freedom? 2.00 > _______ > ____ You Can't Blow Up a Social Relationship 1.50 > _______ > > BUMPER STICKERS > > ____ Bumper Sticker Grab Bag 5.00 > _______ > > To order individual stickers, print the page listing them, > circle the ones you want, add up the total, and enter it here: > _______ > (Of course, include the page with the circled stickers along > with this form.) > SUBTOTAL > _______ > > SHIPPING > _______ > In the U.S., $3.00 for book rate; $4.50 for priority mail. > Overseas (including Canada & Mexico) $4.50 for surface mail, > $5 + 20% of total for air mail. (Please note that these S/H > fees are per order, not per item.) > > (Please also note that all shipments to individuals are > via the U.S. Postal Service. Due to damaged shipments and > their refusal to honor the "insurance" they sell, we > will not ship via UPS.) > TOTAL > $_______ > > > Print Name _______________________ Address > __________________________________ > > City __________________________ State _____ Zip __________ (Country) > ________ > > Please send this form and a check or money order in U.S. dollars to: > > See Sharp Press > P.O. Box 1731 > Tucson, AZ 85702-1731 > USA > > Finally, you can order in-print See Sharp Press books by phone (but not > pamphlets, bumper stickers, or our out-of-print, reduced-price books) > with a credit card at 1-800-888-4741, 9am to 5 pm CST. > > > [ top ] > > > > AA not for profit? Did you never hear of the multi-billion dollar > > treatment industry? > > > > Do you even know who controls the "Big Book"? > > > > Ken Ragge > > http://www.morerevealed.com > > |
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Re: Sobriety without a 12 step program
stuart <fred@nospam.com> wrote in message news:awmre.62691$tt5.14201@edtnps90... > > <NutSoFast@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:ZUkre.842$fV.403@okepread06... > > > > On 13-Jun-2005, "stuart" <fred@nospam.com> wrote: > > > > > Fact is, you haven't. > > > This Ken Ragge would appear to be someone with an agenda. This type of > > > newsgroup offers some free advertising. I suspect he's selling tapes, or > a > > > book or something. > > > > In all honesty Stuart (I made sure to double-checked your name)... > > I've never had reason to form any opinion about him until today. > > > > It would seem that anyone who puts that much energy into > > debunking 'the program' would have an agenda. But perhaps > > he is what he claims to be... some sort of anti-crusader. Who > > knows? > > Ken and his cohorts aren't the sharpest knives in the drawer. Firstly, to > come to a discussion forum with books for sale is amateurish at best. > Secondly, and most sadly, is that Ken may have some good ideas, and many > legitimate points > Basic principles of salesmanship 101 in the 21st century, the information > age, the "new age" the age of enlightenment are paramount. Are you listening > Ken? > The basic premise is that reasonably intelligent and able people can > entertain conflicting ideas simlutaneously. Ken does not understand this. > Secondly, never never never run down the alternatives, ie "the competition" > if you will. Most readers will immediately begin to think you are afraid or > resentful of them. Bad bad bad. Problem here is that their whole package is > predicated on running down AA. > By doing that, in a forum such as this, he allows his denigration of AA to > extend to AA members, and therefore attacking a huge chunk of his potential > market, or at least potential followers of his ideas. Those who are here who > are not XA members see him attacking those who are. Very bad from a > marketing perspective. > What would work much better for him IMO, it to use the "yes, but" > technique... > example," I got sober in AA and I believe in the steps..." > "yes, but that took you to a certain point in recovery, and although you may > want to stay with AA, have you considered...etc etc > > > NutSo (aka CW aka C Dub) > > |
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