"Plug" <gluggaglug@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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> "Anna Thema" <anna_thema@simcity.com> wrote in message
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> > My wife left me 3 yrs ago. I started drinking again shortly thereafter.
> > I haved screwed my chances badly.
>
> Hi there,
> I agree with everything Blue has said. Separation/Divorce and the
children
> issues are difficult enough without throwing alcoholism into the pot.
Your
> wife will always be able to hold that over you. In my limited experience
> "amicable" separations happen to couples without children - every time
there
> is contact with the child, the wound is opened up again. And the whole
> issue of exes is another hurdle to climb over.
> Anyway, get sober first and you will have rid yourself of a curse worse
than
> any woman! Good luck.
> Deb

Funny how it was for me. When I concentrated on sobriety, all the other
problems seem to magically smooth out almost on their own.