"someone in need" <nobody@nowhere.com> wrote in message
news:n8hvm1hkknhp7h0ciql1632sk95pkste8u@4ax.com...
> you will get all kinds of advice. some advice will stem out of hate
> and other out of love.
>
> no one can make the decision for you.
>
>
>
> i have a newly alcoholic wife that i love very much. we split
> physically. if she asks to come back i will say OK but ONLY after she
> completes at least 3 months of rehab. I believe when dealing with an
> addict, albeit a loved one, you must look at their actions and not
> words.

How does somebody become "newly alcoholic??" I didn't think it 'popped up'
like the chicken pox or measles!
>
> i can say what i would do in your shoes. i would play it by ear and
> observe her actions over the next few months. if she can prove herself
> truly sober than i accept her wholeheartedly.
>
> On 7 Nov 2005 11:28:59 -0800, "dreamspinner3" <dreamspinner3@gmx.net>
> wrote:
>
>>I think he is, but I don't know. He is not a stupid person & he knows
>>how to play the system to get what he wants. He's done it before. He
>>knows me very well, he knows just what to say & do to get me thinking
>>things are different this time. But he has never checked himself into
>>the hospital before.
>
>




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