"Dreamspinner3" <dreamspinner3@gmail.com> wrote in message
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> On Tue, 08 Nov 2005 04:28:32 GMT, "stuart" <fred@nospam.com> wrote:
>
>>He is in self-pity and remorse. He wants you to feel sympathy and be
>>hopeful
>>he's "doing something" about his problem.
>>The part about doing something is good. After you indicated you wanted him
>>out, what were his motivations in sharing this with you? actually think
>>he's on Step 9 of the AA program?
>
> I don't know what his motives are became I am not going to talk to him
> to find out. And where did I indicate I wanted him out? I never
> wanted him out of the hospital, I want him to stay in so he gets the
> help he needs, if he's ready for it.

My apology for the Canuckism. "Out" (pronounced 'oot') means to "just take
off eh?"
Didn't mean out of the hospital..
You know what's cool is all the recovery shows on TV nowadays. I think its
helping those on need of help to see what might be required to get healthy
again, and get the thinking apparatus running a little better....

Stay Well



>
>>Why doesn't he just do it?
>
> I can't answer that either. I can guess.
>
>>Why not stand back and just let him get on with his own recovery?
>
> I thought that's what I've been doing so far.
>
>>Doesn't sound like you can really help him at this point anyways.
>
> Nope.
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