At tonights meeting and on many meetings in the past, members stated
something on the lines that step 9 isn't about quelling your concience but
making the other person feel better. I don't understand. What has that to do
with sobriety? also one member felt bad because he felt good about a person
forgiving him... WHAT? If the person who is making amends feels good as well
as the person he/she is making amends too then where's the harm? surely if
you're feeling good and because you are feeling good then thats a good
thing, yes?

Darren