>
>"so if a social occasion does come up that I absolutely cannot avoid,
>I get trashed." "One incident" ? "Incredibly cruel"
>
>Who perpetrated the cruelty?
>

Obviously, me. My choice of words was bad. I was not meaning to imply that my
own actions didn't have something to do with it.

>If you are unwilling to accept the outcome of *repeated* deliberate
>action on your part, have you considered making a formal complaint to
>God?
>

I tried, but his box is full.